Portland, OR, August 2, 2026 —

A Portland, Oregon resident has posed a delicate question to the popular advice column, Dear Abby, regarding funeral etiquette following a difficult divorce. The woman is seeking guidance on whether she should attend her ex-husband’s funeral.

The query highlights the complex emotional landscape that can arise after marital dissolution, particularly when one of the former partners passes away. While the specifics of the divorce proceedings were described as “contentious,” the woman is grappling with the decision of whether to pay her respects at the funeral.

Dear Abby, known for offering advice on personal dilemmas, is expected to provide a response that navigates the nuances of social expectations, personal feelings, and the finality of death. The column typically addresses a wide range of reader concerns, from family disputes to relationship advice.

The details surrounding the ex-husband’s death and the nature of the contentious divorce were not provided in the summary of the query. Information regarding any children from the marriage, or the current relationships with the ex-husband’s family, also remains undisclosed. The specific advice from Dear Abby has not yet been made public.


Story summarized from the original created by Abigail Van Buren on www.oregonlive.com, see more information here.

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